A Couple's Heartbreak
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.
What do you think were the four words?
The husband just said "I Love You Darling"
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not have happened. No
point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.
Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do? Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.
Take off all your envies, jealousies, unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.
Expressing Introducing of himself
Dita : Goods morning
Nitha : good morning
Dita : Hi, I’m Dita. What’s your name?
Nitha : My name is Nitha Yunitha
Dita : What’s your call name ?
Nitha : Nitha
Dita : Where are you from ?
Nitha : I’m fromMojoketo. What about you ?
Dita : I’m from Sidoarjo . Well, it’s nice to meet you
Nitha : Nice to meet you too. See you
Dita : See you later
Expressing making a Promise and swear
Maya : I’d like to invite you to visit the Museum at Trowulan next Saturday?
Dhani : I’m afraid, I can’t
Maya :Why?
Dhani : Because I will visit Ubalan swimming pool ?
Maya : What about Tuesday?
Dhani : That’s very nice .What time will you pick me up ?
Maya : Exactly at 2 p.m
Dhani : Good. See you then.
Exspressing thanks to someone
Sinta : I hear that is some places interest in here . where should I go ?
Putri : You should go to warm water.
Sinta : Are you sure you know the warm water location ?
Putri : Yes, I’m . Water warm at Padusan village,Pacet district.
Sinta : How far it is from Mojokerto ?
Putri : It is 25 Km.
Sinta : And how should I go there?
Putri : You should go by car or motorcycle.
Sinta `: Ok. Thank you for your information.
Putri : You’re welcome.
Expressing of Compliment
Riska: Today , you see beautiful with dress you are wearing
Fikri: Thank you
Riska : You’re welcome
Expressing of Attemption
Diya : Hi , Rina . How are you ?
Yentik : Fine , and you ?
Diya : I’m fine too. I feeling great today for you ?
Yentik : Why you can speak that’s to me ?
Diya : Because today your score science test is very good.
Yentik : Oh really? Are you sure?
Diya : Yes of course
Yentik : Thank you so much
Diya : You’re welcome
the coming of the rainbow.
But in your eyes there's always a great view
sweet painted in a million pixel color.
Flower garden with the sun in the crevices of the leaves
whispering wind beneath a sprig miss padma
fountain your eyes sparkle like a rainbow radiate
timeless curved into my heart.
attention to their beloved ones compared to yourself. For him what matters is the happiness of his beloved though he had to suffer. He was very excuse the lack of boyfriend and girlfriend always forgive mistakes. Included in the love of mercy is the love between blood-borne persons, especially parents love their children, and vice versa. From that then in the Qur'an, a relative called al Arham, dzawi al Arham, namely
people who have a pure relationship of love, which comes from the mother's affection Garba, called the womb (from the mercy of the word.) Since the fetus a child has been overwhelmed by the psychological atmosphere of love in one room called the womb.
Furthermore, among those who have blood relations are encouraged to always silaturrahim, or silaturrahmi means connecting cords of affection. Husband and wife are bound by love and mercy as well mawaddah usually faithful to each other physically and spiritually-world hereafter.
Love this type of mail in the Qur'an is mentioned in the context of polygamy in which when you're falling in love with a young (an tamilu kulla al mail), tend to ignore the old.
how the Prophet Joseph pray for separated with Zulaiha that every day teasing (please put in jail only), because if not, over time Joseph was also slipping in inanity, illa wa `Anni kaidahunna tashrif ashbu ilaihinna account wa min al jahilin (Q/12: 33)
8 .Love kulfah. that is accompanied by feelings of love educating awareness to things that positive though difficult, such as parents who sent his son sweeping, cleaning the room itself, although there are helpers. This type of love is called when the Qur'an states that Allah does not burden a person except according to his ability, he yukallifullah nafsan illa wus `aha (Q / 2:286)
9.L ove is a feeling that given by God on a pair of human beings to each other .... (Love each other, have each other, meet each other, mutual understanding etc.). Love itself can not be enforced at all, love can only brjalan to-2 if the parties do "each other" is ... love can not start if they are selfish. Because in touch, we would want a couple more attention and it can only be from understanding partner.
10. Love is to give love rather than chains. Love also can not be imposed and sometimes are not even coming on accidentally. Love beautiful but the pain he left behind sometimes lasts longer than love itself. Limits of love and hate are also very thin but with a love of the world that we live feel lighter.
Being successful is the purpose of life for most people. One of the capital to achieve success is to be creative individuals. With one's own creativity along with taking appropriate steps in developing creativity, success can be achieved.
Islam is the only one living system that is charged to the whole mankind, in the west or the east, north or south, yellow, red, white or black. Allah swt has announced that he would not accept the system of life (ad-Deen) of Islam with other than his word:
Indeed dien (living systems) are blessed in the sight of Allah is Islam. (Qs.Ali Imran: 19)
Anyone who seeks dien (live system) other than Islam, it never would be accepted (dien it) from him. (Qs.Ali Imran: 85)
The meaning of Islam is the message of Almighty Allah revealed through the Prophet Muhammad. This treatise covers the entire treatise is God Almighty, and thus the message or the religion of Allah revealed through the Prophets before His version does not apply anymore. Therefore, all people are obliged to embrace Islam until the Day of Judgement. Whoever does not believe in Islam, while Islam has to appeal to him, then he is considered an expert hell.
For the sake of the Essence of my soul in His hand, do not hear someone about me from this ummah, whether he is Jewish or Christian, then he does not believe in what was sent to me but it will quite from hell expert. (HR.Muslim)
Second Principle
Islam is the only right answer and clean of all human problems. He covers all aspects of human life, including beliefs, worship, shari'ah and syi'ar-syi'ar. Islam is the balance and the only benchmarks for all facets of human life. From Islam terefleksinya instructions correctly and straight, and congratulations on everything.
And We sent down to thee (Muhammad) the Book (the Qur'an) to explain all things and guidance and mercy and glad tidings to those who surrender. (Qs.an-Nahl: 89)
The Qur'an explains all the problems, whether through nash-nashnya or through the appropriate conclusions about the texts based on the hadith, qiyas, ijma 'ulama, istihsan, istishab, istislah,' urf, the laws that are recognized by mind, Personality 'or customary law according to the limits justified by these texts.
Third Principle
If a person converted to Islam, it means he has surrendered unconditionally to Allah in all matters covering all aspects of life, including those related to the soul, mind, heart, spirit, feeling, emotion, deed, thought, belief and worship. Included in the terms of the constitution and laws of the judiciary. In addition, Islam means total rejection of all forms of penyekutuan by other than Allah. Allah Almighty says:
.... Those who disbelieve in Evil and believes in Allah, then surely he has to hold on to a very strong rope knot that will not break .... (Qs.al-Baqarah: 256)
